Ashbourne Ainsley Damon Kincaid
May 6, 1994 - Sep 9, 2008May 6, 1994 - September 9, 2008
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Ashbourne Ainsley Damon Kincaid
May 6, 1994 - Sep 9, 2008May 6, 1994 - September 9, 2008
Place of birth
Austin, TX
Most recently lived in
Austin, TX
Ashbourne's favorite hobbies
Sketching: He drew all the time. On homework, on napkins, on his jeans. Mostly people. Mostly things he was too shy to say out loud. Photography: He always stole my camera. I’d find pictures of the sky, our dog, the corner of his shoes, my face when I wasn’t looking. Half blurry, but somehow… good. Listening to music: Like, constantly. Same three bands on repeat until everyone went insane. He said music made things feel “less sharp.” Making mix CDs: He’d spend way too long on them. He had names for all of them. He never explained the names. Hanging out on the roof: Mom hated it. He said the air was better up there. He liked sunsets, even if he pretended he didn’t care about stuff like that. Collecting random crap: Ticket stubs, broken bracelets, pins, keychains, dead pens, guitar picks. If you threw something away, he probably rescued it. Drawing on his sneakers: Sharpie designs. Lyrics on the rubber. Sometimes he’d give them to his friends when he wore them out. Writing in notebooks: He called it “notes.” It was poetry. He didn’t want anyone reading it. Staying up late on the computer: MySpace, forums, bad quizzes, weird chats. Half the time he didn’t even talk — just scrolled. Being annoying in a quiet way: Not really a hobby, but he did it a lot. Mostly to me. I miss it.
Ashbourne's favorite foods
🍜 Instant ramen His comfort food. Ate it at least four times a week. Preferred chicken flavor but added way too much soy sauce. 🍕 Leftover pizza (cold) He swore it tasted better straight from the fridge. Jacob said that was “a crime against humanity.” 🍏 Green apples He said red ones were “liars.” (No one knows what that means but it sounded very Ash.) 🍫 Cheap chocolate bars Especially the off-brand ones from gas stations. He tucked them into his backpack “for emergencies.” 🥤 Cherry Coke His favorite drink. Warm, cold, flat — didn’t matter. 🧁 Grocery-store cupcakes You know the ones with too much icing? Those. He loved them. Ate the frosting first. 🥪 Turkey sandwiches with mustard His go-to “actual meal.” No lettuce. No tomato. No “weird crunchy stuff.” 🍟 French fries Dipped in ranch or nothing. Ketchup was “for Jacob.” 🍝 Mac and cheese (the boxed kind) Preferred the powdered cheese over the “fancy” stuff. Said the fancy stuff tasted like sadness. 🌮 Soft tacos Beef, cheese, hot sauce. Simple. Reliable. His entire personality sometimes. 🍓 Strawberries A secret favorite. He only ate them when no one was watching. 🍳 Eggs at night Never in the morning. Midnight eggs only.
Favorite bands and musical artists
MSI, Mother Mother, System of a Down, My Chemical Romance
Ashbourne loved nothing more than
Drawing - Couldn't get enough of it.
Favorite place in the world
His girlfriend's room.
Favorite TV shows
1. Invader Zim His number one without question. He related way too hard to GIR and Zim’s emotional chaos. 2. Teen Titans (2003) Always said Raven “got him.” Lowkey shipped RobStar but pretended he didn’t care. 3. Danny Phantom Half-ghost main character? Yeah, of course he loved it. 4. Avatar: The Last Airbender Said he was “definitely a waterbender,” but Jacob said he was an emo airbender.
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Born on May 6, 1994
Austin, TX
Passed away on September 9, 2008
Austin, TX