Raymond Shafer, born on January 5, 1956, in Cottage Grove, MN, passed away on September 9, 2024, in Hastings, MN. He leaves behind a legacy of love and strength that will be dearly missed by all who knew him.

Ray was a devoted husband to Kimberly Shafer and a proud father to his children: Nicole Shafer, Raymond Shafer Jr., T.J. Tolene, and Alicia Tolene. He was also a cherished grandfather to Ashley York, Trevor York, and Gracie Shafer. In addition to his immediate family, he is survived by his stepdaughter, Crystal Tolene, and his parents.

A roofer by trade, Ray was known for his hard work and dedication to his craft. He had a passion for motorcycles and classic cars, which reflected his adventurous spirit. Though he had a rough and tough exterior that could be intimidating, Ray possessed a softer side, especially when it came to his daughters. He was patient, loving, and protective, always ready to offer support and humor in difficult times.

Ray's influence extended beyond his family. He instilled in his daughters the belief that they could pursue any dream, regardless of societal roles. He was a constant source of encouragement, always ready with a reassuring voice and a promise to stand by them. His memorable moments, such as helping his daughter shop for the perfect Easter dress or offering to confront a heartbreak, exemplified his commitment to being there for his loved ones.

Raymond Shafer will be remembered for his strength, warmth, and unwavering support. His impact on the lives of those around him will resonate for years to come, as he taught his family the importance of resilience and love.