Patti Arvidson Whalen, born on October 13, 1959, in Pompton Plains, NJ, passed away on August 24, 2020, in Netcong, NJ. Patti, affectionately known as Pat, had a passion for music, often singing alongside her husband, Kevin, and recorded original music that showcased her talent and creativity.

Patti cherished her family, especially her beloved husband Kevin and their dog Baggins. She was a devoted sister to her brother Daniel and his wife Sue, and their daughter Amanda and her two daughters, Hannah and Emiline. Patti also shared a close bond with her sister Nancy and her children, Katie and Ben, as well as Ben's son. She was an enthusiastic aunt to her brother Pete and his wife Joanna's children: Denise, Jack, Shelby, and Michael, and adored Denise's children, Mattingly, Kingsley, and Roman, and Shelby’s son, Carter.

An avid fan of music, Patti found joy in the sounds of The Beatles, The Carpenters, and Michael Jackson. She had a special love for chicken parm and enjoyed watching her favorite TV show, ALF. Patti was a passionate supporter of the NY Giants, always cheering for her team with a spirited "Go Big Blue!"

Patti had a soft spot for animals, famously caring for the cats at the dumpster, and she treasured her visits to her favorite place in the world, Disney World. She leaves behind a legacy of love, music, and cherished memories that will be missed by all who knew her.