Lynn Crystal(Abrams)Ulmer was born April 18th 1970 in Chicago, Illinois to Shirley and Frank Abrams. She is the youngest of two and always looked up to her big sister Julia. She attended united Methodist preparatory for girls all through her school going years and then went to the university of Chicago to get a degree in psychology for kids. After graduating she traveled with friends all over the world. In her late thirties she moved to Nebraska to work at a children’s center helping young kids with difficult life’s. She married Clay Ulmer in 2011. Whom she shares step children with. The highlight of her later days was being a grandmother.