In Loving Memory of

Bernard Allen Ottley

July 28, 1960 – November 2, 2026

Born in New York. One of a Kind. Never to Be Forgotten.

Bernard Allen Ottley was born on July 28, 1960, in New York, New York, to Zaida Edina Ottley and Nelson, affectionately known as "Gunel."

Bernard was a man with a personality all his own. He could be aggressive and outspoken, yet loving, caring, and always willing to lend an ear. He was a good listener, someone who had his own way of doing things, and a man who knew how to enjoy his own company. If you knew Bernard, you probably knew that he liked to write everything down. Whether it was something important or just a thought that crossed his mind, he made sure to put it on paper. That was simply Bernard being Bernard.

He enjoyed listening to music, having a good time, and living life on his own terms. He had his own rhythm, his own way of seeing the world, and a presence that could not be mistaken for anyone else's. He was uniquely himself, and those who knew him will always have their own special memories of him.

Bernard leaves behind a legacy of love through his daughter, Clarissa Cleo Ottley, whom he shared with Cleo Graham, and his three beloved grandchildren: Xzaviea Cleo James, Jay'den Alan Jacobs, and Nathaniel Paul Jacobs. His family was an important part of his story, and his memory will continue through the generations that follow him.

He also leaves to cherish his memory his mother, Zaida Edina Ottley; father, Nelson “Gunel”; his brothers, Edgar L. Phipps, and Keith Dawson; his sister-in-law, Norida Phipps; his nephew, Edgar Jr and Kevin G. Phipps Sr.; and his wife, Vivian Phipps-Brown, and her late husband, Rodney Brown. He also leaves his nieces, Yvette Phipps-Brown, Sandra Phipps, and Mercedes Phipps, along with extended family members, relatives, and friends who will forever hold him in their hearts.

Though Bernard's journey on this earth has come to an end, his story does not end here. It lives on in the memories, stories, laughter, and moments shared by those who knew and loved him.

Bernard was one of a kind. He lived life his way, and he will be remembered in a way that is just as unique.

Rest easy, Bernard. Keep the music playing. You will forever be loved, missed, and remembered.