Anne Marie Stapleton

August 16, 1967 - July 30, 2024

Anne Marie Stapleton, lovingly known as Annie, passed away on July 30, 2024, in Charlotte, NC, at the age of 56 from pancreatic cancer. She was born on August 16, 1967, in Moorestown, NJ, and was the youngest of five children.

Anne graduated from East Carolina University where she met the father of her children and received a bachelor's in business management that brought her to a career in insurance as a property appraiser and manager. She also had a passion for makeup and fashion. She had the opportunity to work for Clinique both right out of college and again in the last years of her life. She loved experimenting with different styles and types of makeup, and she took pleasure in teaching her daughter the art of natural beauty. Anne's creativity extended beyond the world of beauty into the kitchen, where she was an incredible cook. She had a special talent for turning whatever ingredients she had into delicious dishes that tasted like Michelin star dining.

Music was an integral part of Anne's life, and she had an eclectic taste, ranging from alternative 80s bands like Motley Crew to the angelic sounds of Celine Dion, Adele, and Andrea Bocelli. She admired artists with strong, independent personalities like P!nk, Fergie, Kelly Clarkson, and Stevie Nicks. Anne found inspiration and escape in music, cherishing the moments it provided.

Anne was a free spirit with an incredible laugh and a kind heart. She was a devoted mother who loved to dance and sing in the living room with her children. Despite experiencing hardship and loss early in life, Anne grew into a person of strength and resilience. She was fiercely independent and proud of who she grew to be. A 'Jersey Girl' at heart, she wasn't afraid to show it, and although it might have come off as brash to some, those who knew her couldn't deny the deep love, care and support that knowing her also came with.

Anne is survived by her three children and ex-husband: Thomas Gentry Stapleton Jr., Abigail Grace Stapleton, Samuel Christian Stapleton, and Thomas Gentry Stapleton Sr. She cherished wonderful memories with the father of her children and was immensely proud of her kids which she loved unwaveringly. Anne also leaves behind her brother, John Stelter, only a year a part in age, they shared a bond from their first walks of life and her love for him was boundless, as an inspiration to look up to and a shoulder to lean on.

Known for her warm and comforting nature, Anne was always there to lend an ear and provide support to those in need. She had a unique ability to empathize and make others feel heard and understood. Anne's impact on the lives of those she touched was immeasurable, leaving a lasting legacy of love and care.

In her authentic and independent spirit, Anne found joy in the simple things, like a pair of smiley-face slippers gifted by her children. She cherished human connections, shared experiences, and quality time. And though her journey with God had its ups and downs with the challenges she faced, she remained faithful until the end.

Anne passed peacefully in the comfort of her home surrounded by the care of her children, brother and Tom and Melissa Stapleton.

Anne Marie Stapleton will be dearly missed by all who knew her. Her memory will be forever cherished.

"It's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." - Anne Marie Stapleton